I’ve recently finished a marvelous book detailing a young
woman’s relationship with her father growing up, titled “The Reading Promise:My father and the books we shared.”
The author, Alice Ozma (literary naming alert), describes “the streak,”
a promise she and her father made initially for him to read aloud to her for
100 straight nights. On the 100th
night, they extended it to 1000 nights.
The final night of the streak, when she went off to college, came 3,218
nights after the first. Though the
book is only tangentially about books, it is about fathers and daughters, a
subject near and dear to me. As
many of you know, I have a little girl, to whom I refer online as the princess,
and I consider my role as her dad one of the top two priorities of my life (the
other is husbanding, not to be confused with husbandry).
Like many dads, I read to my princess pretty much everyday,
as does my wife, but I haven’t thought of going about it in a more formal way
until now. I’m not saying I should make
charts, set reading times, and draw up a list, though those things do appeal to
me. I’m just wondering if I should
make my own “reading promise” to my little girl. If nothing else, I should come up with a flexible book
list. More to come on that.
I’d appreciate any feedback on the subject, and leave you
with one of my favorite quotes on what it takes to be a man. It comes from the movie ‘The Godfather”:
“Do you spend time with your family?” ... “Good, because a
man who doesn’t spend time with his family can never be a real man.”
Now, if you will excuse me, I’m off to be a real man.
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